KEEP YOUR MIND EMPTY
Long time ago, got an excellent professor, he’s very well-known in the field he is involving. A student who very admire him read almost all his books, article. The student try hard so that can interview with professor cuz he have many thing to ask, doubt to clear.
Finally he make it .
At the professor room, student be seated. The student proceed to tell the lecturer what he had read and comment about the theorem he teached, on and on.
After some time, he suggested the have a cup of tea. He performed the traditional tea ceremony while the student sat at attention, bowing when served, saying nothing. He began to pour tea into student’s cup. He pour until it full,and keep pouring. The tea ran out of the edge of the cup onto the table. He keep on pouring as the tea ran onto the floor. Finally, the student cant contain himself any longer. He shouted,” Stop !Stop pouring! The cup is full! No more will go in!”
The professor stopped and said,” Just like this cup , your mind is full with your own opinions and preconception. How can you learn anything unless you empty your MIND.”
Copied from “Dotcomology—Stone Evan”
It’s true. We, sometimes, is full with our own opinions , ego , self-defenses which lead us to refuse the fact. This may not happen only in learning but our communication skills also.
We always do the thing that we, ourself felt its right and good without concerning others feeling. Sometime, we even don’t realize that what we said and done hurt the people around us. When we realize, its too late.
Do care your loved feeling before doing something that is NOTHING TO YOU BUT, MAY EVERYTHING TO HE/SHE.
MUTUAL RESPECT is the key to keep our relationship longer.
Whisper from VEREN 11.26pm
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